Nationally acclaimed family law attorney, mediator and award-winning podcaster, Susan Guthrie is the voice you can trust on your divorce journey. After guiding countless numbers of people through the perilous world of divorce for almost 35 years, and speaking to a podcast audience of over 5 million listeners, Susan brings you the top-rated The Divorce & Beyond® Podcast, ranked in the top 1% of the more than 3.5 million podcasts in the world, to help you successfully navigate the choppy waters of divorce so you can sail into your beautiful BEYOND.
Episodes
Monday Jul 27, 2020
Monday Jul 27, 2020
On this episode, Susan Guthrie speaks with one of the most influential attorneys in Chicago, Beth McCormack, who specializes in complex family law cases including some that have involved estates in the billions! Find out what one of the top divorce attorneys in the country can teach you about your divorce in this special episode of the podcast!
She's called the "Velvet Hammer" for a reason. When you first meet Attorney Beth McCormack, her friendly smile and soft voice might lead you to believe that she is a pushover, but spend a couple of minutes with her and you will soon realize you are speaking to someone with a razor sharp wit and incisive intelligence. These characteristics, combined with empathy and compassion (two of Beth's hallmarks) have made Beth one of Chicago's leading divorce attorneys and has led many high net worth individuals, and more than one billionaire, to put their case in her hands! With that type of experience, there isn't much that Beth hasn't seen and handled and she is sharing that insider view and experience with you. Take a listen to this episode, and find out what a billion dollar divorce attorney can teach you - without the billion dollar price tag!
More about this week's Special Guest: Beth McCormack focuses on highly complex family law matters with vast experience in complex litigation, as well as mediation and collaborative law. Beth also represents children, when appointed by the court, which makes her unparalleled in her ability to navigate complex parenting issues. Beth appreciates the sensitivity surrounding high net-worth, high-profile, and child-related matters, with each requiring a very different skill set.
Ms. McCormack’s practice is founded oncompassion and empathy. She sees it as her responsibility to be aware of each person’s needs, seeking the most appropriate solution for each client.
Ms. McCormack’s vast family law experience enables her to handle and settle complex and sophisticated issues many families face. She is an unwavering advocate for the best interests of children, and easily navigates families through the highly emotional nature of any divorce.
As one of the most influential attorneys in Chicago, Ms. McCormack has naturally become a mentor to many professionals in the legal community. Her peers consistently nominate her as a Best Lawyer, Super Lawyer, and Leading Lawyer. Most recently, Beth was named top 50 women Super Lawyers. Her work ethic and community involvement have earned her accolades within the legal community, and beyond.
Ms. McCormack has a monthly column in the Chicago Daily Law Bulletin, where she educates other lawyers on best practices and writes for many other publications as well.
In addition to all the above, Beth is one of Susan's favorite people in Chicago and an incredibly wonderful human being who she is honored to call "friend!"
Beth is an equity partner at the award winning divorce and family law firm Beermann LLP in Chicago. She can be reached at
T: 312-621-9700
bmccormack@beermannlaw.com
Don't forget to follow Beth on Instagram - she has one of Susan's favorite feeds! @bethfmccormack
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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THE LEARN TO MEDIATE ONLINE ACADEMY: www.learntomediateonline.com
LEARN TO MEDIATE ONLINE: THE LEARN TO MEDIATE ONLINE TRAINING PROGRAM IS NOW AVAILABLE AS AN ONLINE COURSE!! As one of the leading online mediation experts in the country, Susan Guthrie has created a simple and efficient online training program that allows mediation professionals to quickly and easily add an online platform to their practice! The two hour online program covers the basics of conducting mediations through an online platform like Zoom, and reviews the ethical and practical considerations that arise in this format. You even receive a copy of, and the right to use, Susan's Online Mediation Guidelines and Ground Rules to make your online mediations even easier for mediator and clients alike! More than 15,000 professionals have benefited from one of Susan's trainings! You can find the program at https://learntomediateonline.teachable.com/p/learn-to-mediate-online-training-program or just go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
Also available at the LTMO ACADEMY: Social Media Musts for Professionals and DIY Website Builder!
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Susan's Family Mediation Training Webinar: To find out more about Susan's BRAND NEW Divorce & Family Mediation Primer that will help you set up your family mediation practice, go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
This webinar is focused specifically on the fundamentals of setting up a mediation process for parties facing divorce and other family law issues. Susan Guthrie, one of the leading family law and mediation attorneys in the country, shares her practice tips for providing a superior mediation experience to clients while also meeting your needs as a practitioner.
The program will cover suggestions regarding:
- Establishing Processes and procedures
- Effective Consultations
- Efficient fact and data gathering
- Document preparation
- Establishing Fees and Packages
- Streamlined Use of an Agenda
- Mediation format both online and in-person
- and MORE!
Efficiency, client satisfaction, technology and troubleshooting will be reviewed with an eye to making practitioners aware of technology that can be implemented to assist both mediator and clients.
All live webinars will include a live Q & A with Susan at the end of the webinar for those who wish to stay online.
Best of all? Each participant will receive a sample Consultation Checklist, Mediation Agenda and four more handouts for use in their own practice.
This fast-paced webinar program will be conducted in one two-hour session and the LIVE Q & A will follow.
Join us for the next webinar for only $297 on:
AUGUST 6TH AT 9 AM PT / 12 PM ET
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FAYR, the BEST Co-Parenting App on the Market! What makes FAYR different? At FAYR it's not just about efficiency and ease (though they love those). They also help you create a better co-parenting experience by providing tools for: constructive communication, argument diffusion, and emotional support. For information on our FAYR, the ONLY co-parenting app recommended by Susan Guthrie and The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, visit their website at www.fayr.com. Don't forget to use the code "SUSANG18" for 20% off!!
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SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE!
If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!!
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Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Susan Guthrie on Facebook
Susan on Instagram
Susan on Twitter
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter
If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode!
Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!
You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.
Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!!
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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.
Monday Jul 20, 2020
Monday Jul 20, 2020
In this episode Susan Guthrie, Esq., talks with TEDX phenomenom and Best-Selling Author, Jill Sherer Murray, about "Big Wild Love," her new book that takes up where the TEDx stopped and shares Jill's journey and secret sauce for finding your own Big Wild Love and Letting Go of whatever it is that is holding you back forever!
If you are one of the over 2.5 million viewers of Jill Sherer Murray's TEDx Talk, "The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go" then you already know the power of her message and how letting go of a long-term but ultimately unfulfilling relationship led her to become truly unstoppable in love and in life! The only downside to the TEDx? It's only 18 minutes long! But now, Jill has just released her instant best-seller, "Big Wild Love: The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go" that goes well beyond just the power of letting go, and actually reveals the secret of how to actually DO IT! We are held back by so many things in our lives, failing relationships, dead-end jobs, toxic friendships, and more, but letting go often seems impossible. This episode is here to show you that letting go is VERY POSSIBLE, and the key to doing so is finding your own BIG WILD LOVE! Find out what Jill means by this and learn to the step to move forward in this very special episode!
GET JILL'S SPECIAL GIFT FOR LISTENERS: You can download a copy of Jill's special gift for listeners of the Divorce & Beyond Podcast, 6 Steps for Letting Go in a Global Pandemic, here: https://letgoforit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/six-steps-global-pandemic.pdf
More about this week's VERY SPECIAL GUEST: JILL SHERER MURRAY is a TEDx speaker, influencer, author, coach, and founder of Let Go For It®, helping individuals let go for a better life and businesses let go for better results. She’s an award-winning journalist and communications leader who can trace her success in career, love life, and more to letting go.Her TEDx talk, “The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go” has been viewed by millions and she recently released Big Wild Love: The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go in response to the many all over the globe who’ve reached out to her for advice after seeing her TEDx Talk. Jill studied improv at Second City in Chicago, wrote a popular blog called “Diary of a Writer in Mid-Life Crisis”, and let go of just about everything to put her weight in Shape Magazine as part of a year-long assignment to document her weight loss journey.
You can reach Jill at jillsherermurray@gmail.com
Follow her on Instagram: @letgoforit
Get Jill's Book:
Don't forget to leave a REVIEW FOR THE BOOK ONCE YOU HAVE READ IT!! You can do that here: https://www.amazon.com/review/create-review/edit?ie=UTF8&channel=glance-detail&asin=1631528521
If you loved the episode, don't miss JILL AND SUSAN'S VIRTUAL BOOK EVENT on August 20th at 6:30 pm Central! You can find out more on Jill's Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/letgoforit/
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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THE LEARN TO MEDIATE ONLINE ACADEMY: www.learntomediateonline.com
LEARN TO MEDIATE ONLINE: THE LEARN TO MEDIATE ONLINE TRAINING PROGRAM IS NOW AVAILABLE AS AN ONLINE COURSE!! As one of the leading online mediation experts in the country, Susan Guthrie has created a simple and efficient online training program that allows mediation professionals to quickly and easily add an online platform to their practice! The two hour online program covers the basics of conducting mediations through an online platform like Zoom, and reviews the ethical and practical considerations that arise in this format. You even receive a copy of, and the right to use, Susan's Online Mediation Guidelines and Ground Rules to make your online mediations even easier for mediator and clients alike! More than 15,000 professionals have benefited from one of Susan's trainings! You can find the program at https://learntomediateonline.teachable.com/p/learn-to-mediate-online-training-program or just go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
Also available at the LTMO ACADEMY: Social Media Musts for Professionals and DIY Website Builder!
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Susan's Family Mediation Training Webinar: To find out more about Susan's BRAND NEW Divorce & Family Mediation Primer that will help you set up your family mediation practice, go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
This webinar is focused specifically on the fundamentals of setting up a mediation process for parties facing divorce and other family law issues. Susan Guthrie, one of the leading family law and mediation attorneys in the country, shares her practice tips for providing a superior mediation experience to clients while also meeting your needs as a practitioner.
The program will cover suggestions regarding:
- Establishing Processes and procedures
- Effective Consultations
- Efficient fact and data gathering
- Document preparation
- Establishing Fees and Packages
- Streamlined Use of an Agenda
- Mediation format both online and in-person
- and MORE!
Efficiency, client satisfaction, technology and troubleshooting will be reviewed with an eye to making practitioners aware of technology that can be implemented to assist both mediator and clients.
All live webinars will include a live Q & A with Susan at the end of the webinar for those who wish to stay online.
Best of all? Each participant will receive a sample Consultation Checklist, Mediation Agenda and four more handouts for use in their own practice.
This fast-paced webinar program will be conducted in one two-hour session and the LIVE Q & A will follow.
Join us for the next webinar for only $297 on:
AUGUST 6TH AT 9 AM PT / 12 PM ET
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FAYR, the BEST Co-Parenting App on the Market! What makes FAYR different? At FAYR it's not just about efficiency and ease (though they love those). They also help you create a better co-parenting experience by providing tools for: constructive communication, argument diffusion, and emotional support. For information on our FAYR, the ONLY co-parenting app recommended by Susan Guthrie and The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, visit their website at www.fayr.com. Don't forget to use the code "SUSANG18" for 20% off!!
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SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE!
If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!!
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Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Susan Guthrie on Facebook
Susan on Instagram
Susan on Twitter
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter
If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode!
Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!
You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.
Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!!
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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.
Monday Jul 13, 2020
Monday Jul 13, 2020
In this episode Susan Guthrie, Esq., talks with the Ultimate Boss Mama, Erika Rothenberger, Construction Manager, Wellness Entrepreneur, Wife, Mother and Author on how she juggles it all and still manages to take care of herself and be the best version of herself that she can be!
Life can be so complicated when we try to juggle all the many hats that we wear but Erika Rothenberger seems to have found a formula for making it work like a BOSS! By day, Erika wears a hard hat and steel toed boots as the Director of Gas Distribution for large Utility Contractor and then returns home to manage her second full-time business as a six-figure wellness entrepreneur. On top of that add being the mother to two young children, a wife, and oh yes, she just contributed to her first book, "You've Got This Mama!" It might exhaust you just reading that list but Erika has more energy than most anyone you have met so just how does she do it all? How does she prioritize, manage her time and ultimately take care of herself so that she can care for everyone else? Erika has simple and actionable tips for helping you to get on top of it all so that you can thrive and she gives you simple ways to be a BOSS yourself! You've got this Mama (or Daddy)!
More about this week's guest: Erika Rothenberger is the mom of two young kids, Drew (6) and Adelyn (3), married, from Massachusetts, went to Villanova for degree in Civil Engineering & MBA, Director of Gas Distribution for large Utility Contractor (Henkels & McCoy--she really wears a hard hat and steel toed boots), wellness entrepreneur (6 figure income earner and top leader), real estate guru, published author and former fitness instructor. You can reach Erika on her website: http://erikarymsha.isagenix.com
Follow Erika on Social Media: Instagram: @erikalearothenberger, Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/erika.rymsha
You can get a copy of Erika's book, "You've Got This, Boss Mama: A Mother's Guide to Embracing Growth and Living an Aligned Life! on Amazon by clicking here: https://amzn.to/3fshDEc
To enter to win one of TWO FREE COPIES OF THE BOOK, listeners of the Divorce & Beyond Podcast can follow Erika on either Instagram or Facebook before August 13th, send her a DM and mention the podcast and Erika will enter you in a drawing to win!!!
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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Susan's Online Mediation Training Program for Professionals:
LEARN TO MEDIATE ONLINE: THE LEARN TO MEDIATE ONLINE TRAINING PROGRAM IS NOW AVAILABLE AS AN ONLINE COURSE!! As one of the leading online mediation experts in the country, Susan Guthrie has created a simple and efficient online training program that allows mediation professionals to quickly and easily add an online platform to their practice! The two hour online program covers the basics of conducting mediations through an online platform like Zoom, and reviews the ethical and practical considerations that arise in this format. You even receive a copy of, and the right to use, Susan's Online Mediation Guidelines and Ground Rules to make your online mediations even easier for mediator and clients alike! More than 15,000 professionals have benefited from one of Susan's trainings! You can find the program at https://learntomediateonline.teachable.com/p/learn-to-mediate-online-training-program or just go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
Susan's Family Mediation Training Webinar: To find out more about Susan's BRAND NEW Divorce & Family Mediation Primer that will help you set up your family mediation practice, go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
This webinar is focused specifically on the fundamentals of setting up a mediation process for parties facing divorce and other family law issues. Susan Guthrie, one of the leading family law and mediation attorneys in the country, shares her practice tips for providing a superior mediation experience to clients while also meeting your needs as a practitioner.
The program will cover suggestions regarding:
- Establishing Processes and procedures
- Effective Consultations
- Efficient fact and data gathering
- Document preparation
- Establishing Fees and Packages
- Streamlined Use of an Agenda
- Mediation format both online and in-person
- and MORE!
Efficiency, client satisfaction, technology and troubleshooting will be reviewed with an eye to making practitioners aware of technology that can be implemented to assist both mediator and clients.
All live webinars will include a live Q & A with Susan at the end of the webinar for those who wish to stay online.
Best of all? Each participant will receive a sample Consultation Checklist and Mediation Agenda for use in their own practice.
This fast-paced webinar program will be conducted in one two-hour session and the LIVE Q & A will follow.
Join us for the next webinar for only $297 on:
THURSDAY, JULY 9TH AT 9 AM PT / 12 PM ET
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FAYR, the BEST Co-Parenting App on the Market! What makes FAYR different? At FAYR it's not just about efficiency and ease (though they love those). They also help you create a better co-parenting experience by providing tools for: constructive communication, argument diffusion, and emotional support. For information on our FAYR, the ONLY co-parenting app recommended by Susan Guthrie and The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, visit their website at www.fayr.com. Don't forget to use the code "SUSANG18" for 20% off!!
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SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE!
If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!!
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Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Susan Guthrie on Facebook
Susan on Instagram
Susan on Twitter
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter
If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode!
Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!
You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.
Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!!
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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.
Monday Jul 06, 2020
Monday Jul 06, 2020
The fact that the divorce rate has declined almost 25% since the 1980s has been all over the news. Millennials just aren't getting married, (or divorced) in the same numbers as older generations, but that doesn't mean that they aren't having relationships. Cohabitation, co-ownership of homes and co-parenting are all on the rise as is the popularity of prenups! So what are the reasons why Millennials are changing the face of coupling up and uncoupling? On this episode of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq. is joined by high profile divorce attorney, Yanae Barroso, a Millennial herself, who shines a light on all the changes in our lives that have led to these vast changes in how we have romantic relationships. Learn why advances in technology, the rise of social media. being the children of divorce and even student loans have contributed to all of the changes that we see for the next generation and beyond!
More Information on This Week's Guest: Yanae Barroso practices in the area of marital and family law, serving the needs of high net worth individuals. Her prior experience as one of the only associates of the AV-rated Miami and Key West based law firm of Fogel Rubin & Fogel uniquely qualifies her to represent clients in all areas of marital and family law, including dissolution of marriage, paternity, enforcement/modification proceedings, alimony, child support, timesharing and parental responsibility, equitable distribution, LGBT family law, adoption and pre & post nuptial agreements.
You will find her website at www.barroso-law.com
To Access Yanae's FREE GIFT: www.barrosolawgiveaway.com
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan also provides legal coaching and divorce mediation services to select clients around the world through an online platform. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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Susan's Online Mediation Training Program for Professionals:
LEARN TO MEDIATE ONLINE: As one of the leading online mediation experts in the country, Susan Guthrie has created a simple and efficient online training program that allows mediation professionals to quickly and easily add an online platform to their practice! The two hour online program covers the basics of conducting mediations through an online platform like Zoom, and reviews the ethical and practical considerations that arise in this format. You even receive a copy of, and the right to use, Susan's Online Mediation Guidelines and Ground Rules to make your online mediations even easier for mediator and clients alike! Learn more at www.learntomediateonline.com or reach out to Susan directly at susan@learntomediateonline.com. Listeners of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast receive $50 off the cost of the one-on-one training so be sure to mention that you heard about it here!
Susan's Family Mediation Training Webinar: To find out more about Susan's BRAND NEW Divorce & Family Mediation Primer that will help you set up your family mediation practice, go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
This webinar is focused specifically on the fundamentals of setting up a mediation process for parties facing divorce and other family law issues. Susan Guthrie, one of the leading family law and mediation attorneys in the country, shares her practice tips for providing a superior mediation experience to clients while also meeting your needs as a practitioner.
The program will cover suggestions regarding:
- Establishing Processes and procedures
- Effective Consultations
- Efficient fact and data gathering
- Document preparation
- Establishing Fees and Packages
- Streamlined Use of an Agenda
- Mediation format both online and in-person
- and MORE!
Efficiency, client satisfaction, technology and troubleshooting will be reviewed with an eye to making practitioners aware of technology that can be implemented to assist both mediator and clients.
All live webinars will include a live Q & A with Susan at the end of the webinar for those who wish to stay online.
Best of all? Each participant will receive a sample Consultation Checklist and Mediation Agenda for use in their own practice.
This fast-paced webinar program will be conducted in one two-hour session and the LIVE Q & A will follow.
Join us for the next webinar for only $297 on:
THURSDAY, JULY 9TH AT 9 AM PT / 12 PM ET
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FAYR, the BEST Co-Parenting App on the Market! What makes FAYR different? At FAYR it's not just about efficiency and ease (though they love those). They also help you create a better co-parenting experience by providing tools for: constructive communication, argument diffusion, and emotional support. For information on our FAYR, the ONLY co-parenting app recommended by Susan Guthrie and The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, visit their website at www.fayr.com. Don't forget to use the code "SUSANG18" for 20% off!!
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SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES AVAILABLE!
If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!!
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Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Susan Guthrie on Facebook
Susan on Instagram
Susan on Twitter
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Twitter
If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode!
Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!
You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.
Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!!
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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.
Monday Jun 29, 2020
Monday Jun 29, 2020
On this episode Susan Guthrie, Esq. speaks with Coach, Podcast Host and the Author of "Soar," Pamela Savino, on a topic perfectly timed for the tough times that can occur in divorce and on a broader scope, are occuring in the world at large as COVID, societal unrest and financial difficulties create stress and strain in our lives every day. Pam's decision to move through the tough times in her divorce by stepping into her own authentic life will inspire you and help you as you face your own challenging times!
A few years back, Pam Savino and her husband decided to divorce. As she shares in her wonderful book, Soar, there was nothing "bad" happening, but the relationship was not working for either of them. The news left friends and family shocked as they were that picture postcard perfect family who "had it all" but they knew that it was the right choice for them. That is not to say that the divorce was not full of tough times, there were plenty, and Pam shares several stories that may sound very familiar to you such as telling the kids, dealing with the 'til death do us part issue and keeping the divorce a secret from everyone until the time was right. Pam's lessons on leaving behind the life that society and other people tell you is right, and stepping into your own authentic self, perhaps for the very first time, is the true path through the hard times ahead to a a happier and more fulfilled life!
Some highlights from this episode:
- Find out how Pam, and not her attorney, "drove the bus" in the divorce process and how Pam found the strength to make those "big decisions." (7:35)
- What does "living authentially" mean for Pam and why does she think it is the key to getting through those tough moments in divorce and in life? (9:17)
- Where does the shift from inauthentic to authentic living happen? (11:50)
- Why does Pam say that in the challenging moments that is when we find our greatness? (15:45)
- Why were the first 15 seconds of telling the kids about the divorce the most important? (20:20)
- What is a "soul contract" and how did it help Pam to explain the divorce to her daughter? (27:00)
- The questions to ask yourself to "reframe" your tough moments: (35:40)
What am I meant to learn from this?
How can I allow this experience to become a better person?
Instead of choosing hate or anger, how can I choose compassion?
There are just so many moments in our life where change, difficulty and adversity make us stronger and help us to define what is truly authentic for our own lives so take a listen today and let Pam help you to find your way to your AUTHENTIC LIFE!
More About This Week's Guest: Pamela Savino is pursuing her spiritual calling with an unparalleled fervor. She relentlessly helps others find their voice, speak their truth, and live authentically via several modalities. She is the founder of Live Authentically, a life-coaching business, author of SOAR, and she recently started a podcast called the Live Authentically show, whose guests include other people who are also committed to playing a role in raising collective consciousness and helping people discover the essence of who they are. She is also an advocate for plant-based eating and partners with others to spread the plant-based message internationally.
Her wish for everyone in this world is that we all live deeply fulfilling and authentic lives. Achieving this goal often requires radical change, and she is vowing to embody, embrace and model this change to inspire others to find their own voice and leave this world a better place than we found it.
You can find out more about Pam's coaching, group workshops and podcast on her website: www.liveauthentically.today.
Free Gift or Promo for Listeners: Get Pam's 5 Powerful Ways to Embrace Your Authentic Self on her website or by clicking here:
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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For Divorce Professionals: As one of the country's leading experts in online mediation, Susan is now sharing her expertise and knowledge and offering her ONLINE MEDIATION TRAINING PROGRAM which will show you how to implement an online platform into to your existing practice in just two short one-hour online sessions! Increase your potential client base, convenience and income by learning the ethical and practical considerations to know when mediating online! Find out more at www.learntomediateonline.com and mention you are a listener of the Divorce and Beyond Podcast to get $50 off the cost of the 1:1 training!
Susan's Family Mediation Training Webinar: To find out more about Susan's BRAND NEW Divorce & Family Mediation Primer that will help you set up your family mediation practice, go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
This webinar is focused specifically on the fundamentals of setting up a mediation process for parties facing divorce and other family law issues. Susan Guthrie, one of the leading family law and mediation attorneys in the country, shares her practice tips for providing a superior mediation experience to clients while also meeting your needs as a practitioner.
The program will cover suggestions regarding:
- Establishing Processes and procedures
- Effective Consultations
- Efficient fact and data gathering
- Document preparation
- Establishing Fees and Packages
- Streamlined Use of an Agenda
- Mediation format both online and in-person
- and MORE!
Efficiency, client satisfaction, technology and troubleshooting will be reviewed with an eye to making practitioners aware of technology that can be implemented to assist both mediator and clients.
All live webinars will include a live Q & A with Susan at the end of the webinar for those who wish to stay online.
Best of all? Each participant will receive a sample Consultation Checklist and Mediation Agenda for use in their own practice.
This fast-paced webinar program will be conducted in one two-hour session and the LIVE Q & A will follow.
Join us for the first webinar on:
THURSDAY, JULY 9TH AT 9 AM PT / 12 PM ET
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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:
As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. Visit www.soberlink.com for more information and use code "BEYOND20" to receive $50 off a device!
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If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!!
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Don't forget to check out the Divorce & Beyond Podcast website at www.divorceandbeyondpod.com where you can find all of our episodes, links to sponsors and special offers and SIGN UP FOR THE FREE NEWSLETTER and Receive a Special Welcome Video from Susan!
Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Susan Guthrie on Facebook @Susan Guthrie
Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq
Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond
Divorce & Beyond on Twitter @DivorceBeyond
If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode!
Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.
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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE AND COUNSEL.
Monday Jun 22, 2020
Monday Jun 22, 2020
What if we told you that you could reunify with your alienated child in just FOUR DAYS?! Sounds too good to be true doesn't it? The good news is that in this episode, Susan Guthrie, Esq. speaks with Dorcy Pruter, the Founder of the Conscious Co-Parenting Institute, who has a 100% success rate in recovering children in their 4-day workshop!
Parental alienation is one of the most heartbreaking and intractible issues that can arise in a family and historically, courts, attorneys and therapists have struggled to change the paradigm. Even when an alienated parent files all the motions and gets all the forensic reports, everything takes so long that it often seems pointless. That is where Dorcy and her coaches and professionals come in. They have different programs that are all successful in bringing families back together and allowing targeted parents to reunify with their children - even after years of separation. This episode is the doorway to hope and a path to regaining their children for so many parents and children who have been out there suffering for years!
Some Highlights from this Episode:
What is "parental alienation" and why do Susan and Dorcy put "air quotes" around the term?
Discover how alienation is actually a form of both child abuse and intimite partner abuse.
Hear why some families actually AGREE in mediation to enter into the Conscious Co-Parenting Reunification workshop.
Why do you need a protective custody order to get the process started and how do you do that?
What needs to happen after the first 4-day workshop to insure that the kids stay recovered?
How do you get reluctant children to participate?
AND MUCH, MUCH, MORE so don't miss this episode!
More about this week's guest, DORCY PRUTER: The Founder and CEO of Conscious Co-Parenting Institute a Dorcy Inc. Company. Through re-unification coaching and co-parent education, Dorcy provides strategies and solutions for parents and children to reconnect or stay connected during and after a high conflict divorce. Dorcy has extensive experience in all aspects of Parental Alienation from her own personal experience as a child, as a divorced conscious co-parent of two beautiful daughters, and through relationships where her significant other was being alienated from his child.
Dorcy has a Coaching Certification and a Certification in Mediation and High Conflict Resolution, and is Certified to teach several different parenting curriculum including training and working with Jayne Major Ph.D. After teaching for several years, Dorcy has combined some of the best of the training and parenting classes and has written a more powerful new curriculum focused on the challenges facing parents who are struggling through parental alienation and high conflict divorce. Dorcy works with most of the industry leaders on solving the crisis of pathogenic parenting, otherwise known as “parental alienation” that plagues our families. These methodologies are counterintuitive and Dorcy’s extensive work in helping people build better relationships has evolved into the Conscious Co-Parenting Institute.
As Dorcy mentions in the espisode, you can access more information and a number of FREE resources on her website at www.consciouscoparentinginstitute.com. You can also reach the Institute at 888-379-7279 or by emailing them at clientcare@coparentinginstitute.com.
To access Dorcy's free gift, her 4-Part Webinar on her Custody Resolution Method for listeners of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast please click on this link: https://www.consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/custody-resolution-method-free-training/
FOR PARENTS EXPERIENCING ALIENATION, IT IS CRITICAL TO PRESERVE THE COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR CO-PARENT AND MORE FOR COURT IF THAT BECOMES NECESSARY. SUSAN HIGHLY RECOMMENDS USING A CO-PARENTING APP LIKE FAYR TO MAKE THIS EASY!
FAYR, the BEST Co-Parenting App on the Market! What makes FAYR different? At FAYR it's not just about efficiency and ease (though they love those). They also help you create a better co-parenting experience by providing tools for: constructive communication, argument diffusion, and emotional support. For information on FAYR, the ONLY co-parenting app recommended by Susan Guthrie and The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, visit their website at www.fayr.com. Don't forget to use the code "SUSANG18" for 20% off!!
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan also provides legal coaching and divorce mediation services to select clients around the world through an online platform. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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For Divorce Professionals: As one of the country's leading experts in online mediation, Susan is now sharing her expertise and knowledge and offering her ONLINE MEDIATION TRAINING PROGRAM which will show you how to implement an online platform into to your existing practice in just two short one-hour online sessions! Increase your potential client base, convenience and income by learning the ethical and practical considerations to know when mediating online! Find out more at www.learntomediateonline.com and mention you are a listener of the Divorce and Beyond Podcast to get $50 off the cost of the 1:1 training!
Susan's Family Mediation Training Webinar: To find out more about Susan's BRAND NEW Divorce & Family Mediation Primer that will help you set up your family mediation practice, go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
This webinar is focused specifically on the fundamentals of setting up a mediation process for parties facing divorce and other family law issues. Susan Guthrie, one of the leading family law and mediation attorneys in the country, shares her practice tips for providing a superior mediation experience to clients while also meeting your needs as a practitioner.
The program will cover suggestions regarding:
- Establishing Processes and procedures
- Effective Consultations
- Efficient fact and data gathering
- Document preparation
- Establishing Fees and Packages
- Streamlined Use of an Agenda
- Mediation format both online and in-person
- and MORE!
Efficiency, client satisfaction, technology and troubleshooting will be reviewed with an eye to making practitioners aware of technology that can be implemented to assist both mediator and clients.
All live webinars will include a live Q & A with Susan at the end of the webinar for those who wish to stay online.
Best of all? Each participant will receive a sample Consultation Checklist and Mediation Agenda for use in their own practice.
This fast-paced webinar program will be conducted in one two-hour session and the LIVE Q & A will follow.
Join us for the first webinar on:
THURSDAY, JULY 9TH AT 9 AM PT / 12 PM ET
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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:
As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. Visit www.soberlink.com for more information and use code "BEYOND20" to receive $50 off a device!
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If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!!
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Don't forget to check out the Divorce & Beyond Podcast website at www.divorceandbeyondpod.com where you can find all of our episodes, links to sponsors and special offers and SIGN UP FOR THE FREE NEWSLETTER and Receive a Special Welcome Video from Susan!
Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Susan Guthrie on Facebook @Susan Guthrie
Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq
Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond
Divorce & Beyond on Twitter @DivorceBeyond
If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode!
Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.
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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE AND COUNSEL.
Monday Jun 15, 2020
Monday Jun 15, 2020
For so many people going through divorce or difficult change, the future can suddenly look like a big, black void. The life you saw and planned is no longer available and you have no idea how things will unfold as you go forward. This can create a great deal of fear that often keeps people stuck in the trauma of the divorce long after the legal process is over. In this episode, Host Susan Guthrie speaks with Certified Coach, Shannon McGorry, who helps people chart their path beyond divorce to create a future that is in keeping with their interests and values. Things that sometimes get set aside in the give and take of a relationship and the turmoil of it's breakdown. Having been through it herself, Shannon knows the uncertainly that the drastic change of divorce can bring and she also knows how to help you through the loss and the way to turn to the future so that you can thrive after your divorce.
Some highlights from this episode:
Divorce does not define you. You get to choose how you are going to live your next chapter (6:30)
Why Shannon's therapist told her she shouldn't stay in ugly too long. (7:00)
How fear shows up in divorce as fear of the loss, fear of the process and fear of the outcome. (7:45)
What are the two tracks to follow to start taking action? (10:20)
Why do you need to get in touch with and define your values in order to create your new future. (14:25)
What does Shannon's "categories of life" exercise do to help you unhit the pause button on your life. (19:15)
What exactly does Shannon mean by becoming empowered and why is it SO important for moving forward after your divorce? (25:35)
How can you regain your power when the divorce is not something that you chose or want? (27:05)
Shannon knows the fear you are feeling and also the steps you can take to move through that fear or avoid it entirely so that you CAN thrive into your new future - Don't miss this episode!
More about this week's Special Guest: Shannon McGorry is a Certified Professional Coach specializing in Divorce and Life Empowerment.
Expertise, Prioritization, Clarity, and Accountability are the principles of Shannon’s practice. Shannon empowers her clients to show up confident, well informed, and educated as they make decisions and take consistent, intentional action in support of their future reality.
Shannon obtained her coaching certification through the Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching, and she graduated Magna Cum Laude from Siena College with a Bachelor of Arts in Economics.
She is a woman of faith, a mom of two daughters, a yoga enthusiast, a huge fan of the beach, of being outside, and of laughter.
Shannon is available for private coaching, workshops, and speaking engagements via her website, http://www.lovestrengthandgrace.com.
Shannon's Special Gift for Listeners of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast: A very special 15-minute audio with 4 tips to start the shift in your thinking! You can access Shannon's gift here: https://lovestrengthandgrace.lpages.co/audio-training-whats-next-creating-a-powerful-shift-in-focus-after-divorce/
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WANT TO BE A GUEST ON THE DIVORCE & BEYOND PODCAST? You can apply on the website: https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/want-to-be-a-guest%3F
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan also provides legal coaching and divorce mediation services to select clients around the world through an online platform. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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For Mediation Professionals: As one of the country's leading experts in online mediation, Susan is now sharing her expertise and knowledge and offering her ONLINE MEDIATION TRAINING PROGRAM which will show you how to implement an online platform into to your existing practice in just two short one-hour online sessions! Increase your potential client base, convenience and income by learning the ethical and practical considerations to know when mediating online! Find out more at www.learntomediateonline.com and mention you are a listener of the Divorce and Beyond Podcast to get $50 off the cost of the 1:1 training!
Susan's Family Mediation Training Webinar: To find out more about Susan's BRAND NEW Divorce & Family Mediation Primer that will help you set up your family mediation practice, go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
This webinar is focused specifically on the fundamentals of setting up a mediation process for parties facing divorce and other family law issues. Susan Guthrie, one of the leading family law and mediation attorneys in the country, shares her practice tips for providing a superior mediation experience to clients while also meeting your needs as a practitioner.
The program will cover suggestions regarding:
- Establishing Processes and procedures
- Effective Consultations
- Efficient fact and data gathering
- Document preparation
- Establishing Fees and Packages
- Streamlined Use of an Agenda
- Mediation format both online and in-person
- and MORE!
Efficiency, client satisfaction, technology and troubleshooting will be reviewed with an eye to making practitioners aware of technology that can be implemented to assist both mediator and clients.
All live webinars will include a live Q & A with Susan at the end of the webinar for those who wish to stay online.
Best of all? Each participant will receive a sample Consultation Checklist and Mediation Agenda for use in their own practice.
This fast-paced webinar program will be conducted in one two-hour session and the LIVE Q & A will follow.
Join us for the first webinar on:
WEDNESDAY, JUNE 17TH AT 9 AM PT / 12 PM ET
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THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:
Gabrielle Hartley, the Creator of the Better Apart Method: Leading divorce lawyer, coach and mediator, Gabrielle Hartley's book book "Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate" is a runaway best-seller and now she has created the Better Apart Master Class, available for download online, which provides powerful tools to help you get clear, feel better and reclaim your life! For a limited time you will receive a mini consultation with Gabrielle herself when you sign up for the Master Class. Listeners of the podcast receive $25 off the price of the Master Class with code "BEYOND25"!!!
Susan's Family Mediation Training Webinar: To find out more about Susan's BRAND NEW Divorce & Family Mediation Primer go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!!
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Don't forget to check out the Divorce & Beyond Podcast website at www.divorceandbeyondpod.com where you can find all of our episodes, links to sponsors and special offers and SIGN UP FOR THE FREE NEWSLETTER and Receive a Special Welcome Video from Susan!
Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Susan Guthrie on Facebook @Susan Guthrie
Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq
Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond
Divorce & Beyond on Twitter @DivorceBeyond
If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode!
Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.
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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.
Monday Jun 08, 2020
Monday Jun 08, 2020
"Everything is negotiable. Whether or not the negotiation is easy is another question." - Carrie Fisher
Whether it is negotiating with the plumber who is going to fix your toilet, your twelve year old over cleaning her room or with your boss for a raise, we negotiate matters big and small every day. The difference is, when we sit down at the table to negotiate our divorce settlement with our soon to be ex-spouse, the emotions are high and the decisions can be some that will impact our lives and our family for years to come. We worry that we aren't up to the task but that is where Professor Andrea Schneider can help. She literally wrote THE book that teaches lawyers how to negotiate. Negotiation Essentials for Lawyers! In fact, Professor Schneider gives negotiation trainings around the world to law school students, corporations, law firms, court systems, and even other faculty and she is here to help you get ready for your divorce negotiation. Host Susan Guthrie and Professor Schneider review all the steps you need to take to arrive at the best settlement that you can, from pre-negotiation preparation to how to get your spouse to agree to what you want. This is essential listening not just for those who are divorcing, but really everyone, because these skills are necessary every day and in every way!
Some Highlights from this episode:
- Find out why you may already have more negotiation skills than you think you do.
- What happens in a negotiation that gives you a signal that you need to pay attention because this is important?
- Why are the steps you take BEFORE the negotiation some of the most important and what are they?
- How do your goals, interests and limits play into your negotiation strategy?
- What does BOBO stand for and why do you need to know?
- How is a bicycle like the negotiation process?
And so much more that will help you to negotiate a divorce agreement that works for you!
More about this week's guest: Professor Andrea Schneider joined the faculty of Marquette University Law School in 1996. She teaches ADR, Negotiation, Ethics, and International Conflict Resolution. She is the inaugural director of the Institute for Women’s Leadership at Marquette University and also serves as the Director of the nationally ranked ADR program at Marquette University Law School.
Professor Schneider is the author or co-author of numerous books and book chapters in the field of dispute resolution. Her most recently published works include Negotiating Crime: Plea Bargaining, Problem Solving and Dispute Resolution in the Criminal Context with Cynthia Alkon (Carolina Academic Press 2019) and Negotiation Essentials for Lawyers (ABA Publishing, 2019) and The Negotiator’s Desk Reference (DRI Press 2017) both co-edited with Chris Honeyman. Another recent book, which she co-authored with her father David Kupfer, is Smart & Savvy: Negotiation Strategies in Academia (Meadows Communication 2017). Her textbooks include Dispute Resolution: Examples and Explanations (Aspen 2009, 2nd ed. 2011, 3rd ed. 2014) with Michael Moffitt as well as Negotiation: Processes For Problem-Solving (Aspen 2006, 2nd ed. 2014), Mediation: Practice, Policy & Ethics (Aspen 2006, 2nd ed. 2013) and Dispute Resolution: Beyond The Adversarial Model (Aspen 2005, 2nd ed. 2011, 3rd ed 2019), with Carrie Menkel-Meadow, Lela Love & Michael Moffitt. She also is a co-author of two additional books on negotiation with Roger Fisher, Beyond Machiavelli: Tools for Coping with Conflict (Harvard University Press 1994) and Coping with International Conflict (Prentice-Hall 1997). Professor Schneider also wrote Creating the Musee The Politics of Culture in France (Penn State Press, 1998). Professor Schneider has published numerous articles on negotiation, pedagogy, ethics, gender and international conflict. She currently serves as the co-editor of the ABA Dispute Resolution Magazine and on the Board of Advisors for the Saltman Center for Conflict Resolution at UNLV School of Law.
You can reach Professor Schneider at andrea.schneider@marquette.edu and can purchase her book, Negotiation Essentials for Lawyers, by clicking the title or go here: https://amzn.to/2Y9o8o7!
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WANT TO BE A GUEST ON THE DIVORCE & BEYOND PODCAST? You can apply on the website: https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/want-to-be-a-guest%3F
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan also provides legal coaching and divorce mediation services to select clients around the world through an online platform. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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For Mediation Professionals: As one of the country's leading experts in online mediation, Susan is now sharing her expertise and knowledge and offering her ONLINE MEDIATION TRAINING PROGRAM which will show you how to implement an online platform into to your existing practice in just two short one-hour online sessions! Increase your potential client base, convenience and income by learning the ethical and practical considerations to know when mediating online! Find out more at www.learntomediateonline.com and mention you are a listener of the Divorce and Beyond Podcast to get $50 off the cost of the 1:1 training!
Susan's Family Mediation Training Webinar: To find out more about Susan's BRAND NEW Divorce & Family Mediation Primer that will help you set up your family mediation practice, go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
This webinar is focused specifically on the fundamentals of setting up a mediation process for parties facing divorce and other family law issues. Susan Guthrie, one of the leading family law and mediation attorneys in the country, shares her practice tips for providing a superior mediation experience to clients while also meeting your needs as a practitioner.
The program will cover suggestions regarding:
- Establishing Processes and procedures
- Effective Consultations
- Efficient fact and data gathering
- Document preparation
- Establishing Fees and Packages
- Streamlined Use of an Agenda
- Mediation format both online and in-person
- and MORE!
Efficiency, client satisfaction, technology and troubleshooting will be reviewed with an eye to making practitioners aware of technology that can be implemented to assist both mediator and clients.
All live webinars will include a live Q & A with Susan at the end of the webinar for those who wish to stay online.
Best of all? Each participant will receive a sample Consultation Checklist and Mediation Agenda for use in their own practice.
This fast-paced webinar program will be conducted in one two-hour session and the LIVE Q & A will follow.
Join us for the first webinar on:
WEDNESDAY, JUNE 17TH AT 9 AM PT / 12 PM ET
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THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:
Gabrielle Hartley, the Creator of the Better Apart Method: Leading divorce lawyer, coach and mediator, Gabrielle Hartley's book book "Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate" is a runaway best-seller and now she has created the Better Apart Master Class, available for download online, which provides powerful tools to help you get clear, feel better and reclaim your life! For a limited time you will receive a mini consultation with Gabrielle herself when you sign up for the Master Class. Listeners of the podcast receive $25 off the price of the Master Class with code "BEYOND25"!!!
Susan's Family Mediation Training Webinar: To find out more about Susan's BRAND NEW Divorce & Family Mediation Primer go to the website www.learntomediateonline.com!
If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!!
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Don't forget to check out the Divorce & Beyond Podcast website at www.divorceandbeyondpod.com where you can find all of our episodes, links to sponsors and special offers and SIGN UP FOR THE FREE NEWSLETTER and Receive a Special Welcome Video from Susan!
Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Susan Guthrie on Facebook @Susan Guthrie
Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq
Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond
Divorce & Beyond on Twitter @DivorceBeyond
If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode!
Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.
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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.
Monday Jun 01, 2020
Monday Jun 01, 2020
Motherhood. The word alone is emotionally charged and the role of a mother has been prescribed and defined for centuries as the primary caregiver and nurturer, but over the years, society has layers so many more labels and strictures on the role. What makes a good mother? Why must there be a definition and why is there such stigma if a mother does not fit the societal norm?
Our guest this week, Susan Eckstein, is a non-conforming mother who bravely shares her story of breaking the mold and redefining motherhood in a way that worked best for her family and that allowed her to show up as her best self for her children. Along the way, she faced shame, both internal and external, and pain as others, particularly women, dismissed and condemned her decisions. Susan has come forward to tell the tale of her journey in order to help other mothers, who face difficult decisions about parenting their children in the way that allows both mother and child to thrive. This is a story that needs to be told and we all need to listen.
Highlights from this episode:
- What factors led to Susan's decision that her boys should live with their Dad?
- How did the phrase "keep the keys" help the family to restructure in a healthy way?
- Who were the worst critics of Susan's decision to be a non-custodial mother?
- How did a business coach help Susan to find her way out of her struggle with shame?
- How can you throw out society's scorecard for motherhood to show up as your best self for your kids?
This is the story no one will talk about but Susan bravely shares her journey so that we can all be better parents and live happier lives. Listen.
More about this week's guest: Susan Eckstein is an empowerment coach and speaker helping divorced moms lead with their values so they can define motherhood for themselves. Susan leads her clients through a life-changing empowerment process where they challenge their stories, change their beliefs, step into their badassery and show up more powerfully for their children. After becoming a non-custodial mother following her divorce, Susan felt ashamed for years. However, once she stopped measuring her worth against what society says is a gold-star mother, she empowered herself and created her own unique relationship with her two boys. Susan now helps other divorced moms release their shame, reconnect to their power and define motherhood for themselves. A former mindset coach, personal trainer and triathlon coach, Susan has coached hundreds of men and women to successfully compete in their dream athletic events, including triathlons, marathons and adventure races. She is also a three-time Ironman Louisville finisher.
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Find out More About Susan's New Program: The Empowered Path Past Divorce
Susan's Special Gift for Listeners: A FREE 30 minute consultation call! Email Susan at susan@thesusaneckstein.com and mention The Divorce & Beyond Podcast!
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan also provides legal coaching and divorce mediation services to select clients around the world through an online platform. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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For Divorce Professionals: As one of the country's leading experts in online mediation, Susan is now sharing her expertise and knowledge and offering her ONLINE MEDIATION TRAINING PROGRAM which will show you how to implement an online platform into to your existing practice in just two short one-hour online sessions! Increase your potential client base, convenience and income by learning the ethical and practical considerations to know when mediating online! Find out more at www.learntomediateonline.com and mention you are a listener of the Divorce and Beyond Podcast to get $50 off the cost of the 1:1 training!
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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:
As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. Visit www.soberlink.com for more information and use code "BEYOND20" to receive $50 off a device!
If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!!
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Don't forget to check out the Divorce & Beyond Podcast website at www.divorceandbeyondpod.com where you can find all of our episodes, links to sponsors and special offers and SIGN UP FOR THE FREE NEWSLETTER and Receive a Special Welcome Video from Susan!
Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Susan Guthrie on Facebook @Susan Guthrie
Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq
Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond
Divorce & Beyond on Twitter @DivorceBeyond
If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode!
Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.
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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE AND COUNSEL.
Monday May 25, 2020
Monday May 25, 2020
Often we are our own worst enemies when it comes to living fully and finding love that lasts. On this episode of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie has a revealing conversation with Junie Moon, THE Love Coach who works with women, men and even couples to help them to work through the shadows of the past to find NEXT LEVEL LOVE!
Whether you are working through a divorce, recovering from a breakup or just tired of being alone, the path to love is fraught with disappointment and fear for many. We continue to choose the wrong partners and this "broken picker" leaves us afraid that we will never find that relationship where we are loved and valued for who we truly are. Coach Junie Moon, a certified Shadow Worker and Love Coach, has been there herself, and she knows that your path can be different. That you can find that love and you can have a successful and fulfilling personal life. Susan and Junie take you through the discussion you need to have with your "inner critic" in order to turn it down and move forward and transform your life to one of deep fulfillment and joy!
Some Highlights from this Episode:
6:15 Susan and Junie share insights into why it is so painful to let go of the past.
8:00 Find out why you keep making the same relationship mistakes over and over again.
9:35 What are the "gremlins" that sabotage our love?
10:45 How can you inner critic actually be your friend?
14:20 Why is it important to date yourself?
23:00 What do incidents from your childhood have to do with your love life?
23:20 What is shadow work and how does it help you to go back to go forward?
28:20 After awareness, what comes next to lead to transformation that sticks?
Learn more about this week's Special Guest: Junie Moon, The Love Coach, helps women in midlife experience Next Level Love. She has been called the Inner Critic Tamer and helps women lower the volume of negative thoughts so they can fully embrace this precious stage of life with confidence, ease and excitement.
Junie’s an award-winning international speaker, Best-selling author of Loving the Whole Package: Shed the Shame and Live Life Out Loud, director/producer of the film Shed the Shame, host of the podcast Midlife Love Out Loud and a Certified Shadow Work® Facilitator.
Junie's Special Gift: Get your FREE COPY of Junie's "Midlife Love Guide to Successful Dating", 7 Steps to Magnetize Mr. Right at www.coachjuniemoon.com/loveguide.
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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes. Susan also provides legal coaching and divorce mediation services to select clients around the world through an online platform. Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.
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For Divorce Professionals: As one of the country's leading experts in online mediation, Susan is now sharing her expertise and knowledge and offering her ONLINE MEDIATION TRAINING PROGRAM which will show you how to implement an online platform into to your existing practice in just two short one-hour online sessions! Increase your potential client base, convenience and income by learning the ethical and practical considerations to know when mediating online! Find out more at www.learntomediateonline.com and mention you are a listener of the Divorce and Beyond Podcast to get $50 off the cost of the 1:1 training!
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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:
As the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology, Soberlink combines a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity and is the only system with facial recognition, tamper detection, and Advanced Reporting™. The real-time system reduces litigation, fosters peace of mind, and ensures child safety. Visit www.soberlink.com for more information and use code "BEYOND20" to receive $50 off a device!
If you would like to sponsor the show please reach out to us at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com for pricing and details!!!
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Don't forget to check out the Divorce & Beyond Podcast website at www.divorceandbeyondpod.com where you can find all of our episodes, links to sponsors and special offers and SIGN UP FOR THE FREE NEWSLETTER and Receive a Special Welcome Video from Susan!
Remember to follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:
Susan Guthrie on Facebook @Susan Guthrie
Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq
Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw
Divorce & Beyond Podcast on Instagram @divorceandbeyond
Divorce & Beyond on Twitter @DivorceBeyond
If you want to see the video version of the podcast episodes they are available on The Divorce & Beyond YouTube Channel! Make sure to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode!
Finally, we'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us! You can also get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.
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DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE AND COUNSEL.